but what I don't understand is this: putting that you agree under a post removes simply replying "this" or "I agree." that seems desirable to me.
and I get a lot more helpfuls, likes, or agrees than I do disagrees
It's just that when I'm having a conversation with people and then they resort to just throwing Xs under my posts instead of replying, it doesn't really seem productive. if anything, the posts that aren't made because of having the red x to throw around are ones you want to be made, whereas the ones checkmarks/thumbs up replace are ones you don't want because they don't contribute.
I'm not sure what is communicated when I have a regular conversation with someone and they stop replying and just use reactions.
Also, if you're insinuating something about being banned on here before or whatever, I don't really think it has anything to do with the discussion. I think your characterization of my logic is just one big personal insult and dramatizes what's really a fairly simple point being made