It's more a case of "I want to have my cake and eat it" than of "I don't want that". Free specialist slots that give +3 amenities, +3 TV and +1 unity looks damn tasty and I want in, but on the other side I don't want to deal with the increased spiritualist attraction >.<.Then don't sign a trade pact with them. Unless they are piracy and drugs preachers, then sign a new military budget.