I'm doing a campaign as Denmark right now, and I'm trying to get Ireland and Friesland to join my alliance. They refuse every time I ask. I grease them with gifts to get high relations, they still refuse. My only current allies are Norway and Sweden so I'm not at the alliance size limit yet; I should be able to bring two more countries in. I have royal marriages with both Ireland and Friesland. Our relations are very high, well over +100; with Ireland it's almost +200. My badboy rating is low, only 3.5 with "respectable" reputation. And this is pre-Reformation, so we still have the same religion (and my Catholic tolerance is at the max), if that matters.
Odd thing is, I had no trouble allying Norway. And we'd just finished a long ugly war; as soon as it ended (or rather, as soon as Sweden stabbed me in the back by ending it for a 32-ducat indemnity when I had occupied almost every Norwegian province, causing me to swear eternal vengeance upon Sweden), I invited Norway into my alliance and they joined immediately. Our relations were only +80 or so and we had no royal marriage due to having been at war.
Why is it harder to ally some countries than others? Even small and weak countries like Ireland and Friesland.
Odd thing is, I had no trouble allying Norway. And we'd just finished a long ugly war; as soon as it ended (or rather, as soon as Sweden stabbed me in the back by ending it for a 32-ducat indemnity when I had occupied almost every Norwegian province, causing me to swear eternal vengeance upon Sweden), I invited Norway into my alliance and they joined immediately. Our relations were only +80 or so and we had no royal marriage due to having been at war.
Why is it harder to ally some countries than others? Even small and weak countries like Ireland and Friesland.