Right mouse button on portrait, the RMB again on a little circle with a head - and turn "the message interest" or something like that there. That would inform you about things with that particular character. Not sure if it says something about age tho.Is there a way to "watch" a character, so you get informed when he/she comes of age? I'm tired of my relatives' having only daughters, and then letting them have regular marriages. And since it seems impossible to do matrilineal betrothals, I need to know as soon as come of age.