Am I the only person who finds it easy to manage decadence just by spamming Ramadan and fighting wars a lot?
thats not the problem ... you can keep decadence down pretty easy.
the thing is ... decadence forces you to mass conquest and/or decimate your family and/or a combination of these
and in the end it even doesnt do a good job at what it was implemented for, instead of de-blobbing a muslim state it just replaces the ruling dynasty with a new random generated one. yes the blob will be scattered a little right after the decadence war, but the new ruler will have strong claims on everything lost and thus AI will retake the whole original blob within max 2 years.
the main thing (for me) is that being forced to
NOT land your dynasty members just feels majorly unrealistic.
spamming wars (increasing your realm = increasing your decadence income) to keep your decadence down is a backfire thing
especially when you combine these two and play muslims like any sane feudal / dynastic ruler wouldve acted in this time period. (watch arumbas defective decadence series on youtube)
you dont even need to land every single male dynasty member you have. just go with the ones that got good stats and/or like you.
as soon as your family gets a certain size and you
do not imprison all male members when they turn 16 you will get thrown decadence at you in abnormous amounts, only way to counter that would be to land them, leading to more family members again, leading to you being forced to war not only to keep your decadence down from war contrbution but also to gain more lands to land more dynasty members.
and there we go ... you just entered the decadence maelstrom and after a certain point there is no way to get out of there anymore.
sure you can play on ... take the decadence revolt when it comes, maybe win it, maybe loose it (most likely ;P), then try to retake all your former titles from within again. but you will still have abnormous decadence amounts and only for a short time its not you who will be the head of dynasty ... until you become the highest ranking/powerful member of your dynasty again.
--rinse and repeat--
this is why most people do not enjoy playing muslims any more, because the curent decadence system is just contraproductive to the whole game
it doesnt fix the problem it is supposed to (de-blobbing muslim states, thats atleast what the majority of the community thinks its made for)
it forces players into a way of playing that feels unrealistic / majorly gamey (not everyone [i even guess the majority] doesnt even want to play gamey at all)
that there
are ways to game the decadence mechanics
doesnt mean that it is
fun to play muslims