I don't know man. I think homophobic slurs are lame and I don't like watching videos wherein people use those words all the time like they're cool and edgy. It's extremely grating and off-putting to me (hard to find something that's less pre-pubescent), and that's got nothing to do with 'offense'.
Thanks Daedalus, now I know not to bother with that fellow.
"All the time" - Yeah, like once in a single video. How could he? What a devil he must be.
I just want to point out that I have never said that anyone is the 'worst person ever' and I have also acknowledged that people make mistakes.
It's worth noting that Arumba has shut down all arguments against use of that word by saying that it is the viewer's fault if they find it offensive.
And? If you have the feeling of being offended, then yes, generally that is your "fault". Because you are the one being offended. That doesn't mean that there's absolutly no justification to being offended by that word.
It's also relevant to what Arumba said before, namely that he uses the word as a general insult. It doesn't mean "gay person" to him, but is just a general insult to him. Which means that he doesn't aim to offend anyone by using that word.
And since Arumba doesn't intend to offend people using the word. If you are offended then that's not because Arumba aimed to actively offend you by using the word, but rather you just being offended by him using the word.
Personally I am also not a great fan of people using the word "faggot" and I can absolutly understand why it would offend certain people. But I also know that people grow up using certain swearwords and those words don't universally have the same meaning. It's ok to be offended by someone using a word you don't like, but you shouldn't assume malicious intend behind someone just using the words they grew up using, because it's very likely that they mean something different to them then they mean to you.