I didn't read the who thread, but here we go:
There is no reason why France should NOT be Revolutionary in a WC. It's super OP. The government reforms are amazing (I love the one that gives +1 free to ALL policies). You get +40% force limits, manpower, and the best CB in the game. And more.
You do not need 100% Crown Land for +15 max absolutism. You only need 75%. The extra 25% only gives 5% taxes and a few other minor bonuses. As Austria, I'm at 110 Absolutism with 79% Crown land (I am getting +5 from golden age though). I'm using one privilege (the one that increases equilibrium for all estates and calls the automatic diet - but not really needed). I think Court and Country is worth it (I didn't do it though) as it allows you to keep all those governing capacity privileges while staying above 100 absolutism.
Build Town Halls in every single province. Build State Houses in every single state (once you're overwhelmingly rich), focusing on provinces with paper, glass, and gems (I think gems too don't remember). Even then you'll probably still go over capacity by a lot if you don't use lots of vassals.
Unless you're WC as Spain or Portugal, or someone outside of Europe, I don't think exploration is worth it for colonizing the Americas. It's much better to just annex a colonizer and you get all their colonies for free. It can be worth it though, to start attacking Africa and India early, especially since France is in a bad AE position in Europe. But maybe expansion is better for the latter.
I think at some point you should drop Strong Duchies, especially after completing Influence and Diplo.