Wife doesn't live with me?

[Etherite82]

Playing as Benevento from the earliest bookmark. I married my heir to the future queen of Lombardy. My heir succeeded and then his betrothed came of age a couple of years later and they got married. However, they are both living in their respective kingdoms. My thought was that our heir would inherit both kingdoms but since they're living a few hundred miles apart, an heir happening seems unlikely.

How can I get her living with me? Running all DLC except Conclave, no mods.

 

[prismaticmarcus]

there'll be conjugal visits, i promise

 

[TheRealRemus]

apperently this does not prevent you from making Love with your wife, eventually she will become pregnant.
you could try swaying her until you get events that make you or her lustful or lovers to further increase the likelyhood.

 

[Woifee]

Actually with both characters landed the Chance for kids is much higher.

 

[Mithradates]

If she's a ruler then she'll be in her own court, yeah. She has to rule her domain.

 

[Rokh]

I've always wondered about this. Does being in different provinces decrease fertility at all? And leading troops?

 

[TheDungen]

Playing as Benevento from the earliest bookmark. I married my heir to the future queen of Lombardy. My heir succeeded and then his betrothed came of age a couple of years later and they got married. However, they are both living in their respective kingdoms. My thought was that our heir would inherit both kingdoms but since they're living a few hundred miles apart, an heir happening seems unlikely.

How can I get her living with me? Running all DLC except Conclave, no mods.

Think of it more as her having a court of her own to administer rather than she physically being there.

Also every DLC except conclave? But conclave is one of the best, I mean it's not RIPers Due, but it also isn't CM.

 

[TheRealRemus]

I've always wondered about this. Does being in different provinces decrease fertility at all? And leading troops?

as far as I know beeing abroad does refuce vertility, thats why you get the suspiciousness Event when you wife gets pregnant even though you were away.
I Think beeing a coucil member and doing a Mission in another province, leading troops and beeing an a journey marks you as "abroad".
However your wife beeing at her own court does not reduce the vertility.

 

[DPS]

as far as I know beeing abroad does refuce vertility, thats why you get the suspiciousness Event when you wife gets pregnant even though you were away.

Nah, that's just flavor text. You get that even if neither of you have been away from your capitol.

 

[beartjah]

I've always wondered about this. Does being in different provinces decrease fertility at all? And leading troops?

Nope. You could be leading an army in india while your wife is at home in iceland and you'll still have children just fine.