also E) cause my heir is not diplomatic enough (have a grey emmince tutor my son, get a level 2 economic guy WTF) and/or he has really sucky traits.
Homosexuals have children too. I tend to marry them to each other because I believe it would normally be unfair to couple them with straight persons.
Also, while in real life as a Catholic I believe that homosexual activity is immoral, I believe there is nothing immoral about merely being attracted to one's own gender and I refuse to "like" my in-game children, vassals, courtiers and others just because they have the trait. It is basically a challenge in life for them.
Well, I don't know how you play but how about playing without fabricating claims, serially or too conveniently assassinating people, especially in combination with matrilineal marriages of claimants in your court who can't refuse a matrilineal marriage? Once we remove the gamey elements (and reduce the aggressive/greedy/dishonourable actions to characters with appropriate negative traits, or remove them at all from the game), then it stops being so easy.
In my first game, I started as Poland, never attempted a single assassination or fabrication, still got myself to 300 size, although only one kingdom (could have usurped one other but didn't want to because the king was legitimate).
Well, don't need to hijack the caliphate, especially if it involves matrilineal marriages in combination with assassinations.
Well, that's power-gaming. You can try and roleplay instead. Pressing tribal Mongol invasions on everybody is not particularly defensible from the point of view of Catholic theology.
Basically play like a normal person (or normal person with specific traits on the character list), not like someone who has a set of charts and indicators and very efficiently maximises his power base. Mediaeval monarchs didn't act like that (at least not to that extent, while they did fabricate claims, assassinate people tc.).
Why? I'd have kept playing. At any rate, again, if you did something like religious/cultural conversions from a power-gaming hand-on-the-mouse meta-gaming point of view, you could try and play without doing that. In my current game, I actually have a Byzantine claimant with kids belonging to my dynasty but I don't press it because I don't want a massive war with tens of thousands of Christian troops dying on both sides (I'd win it no doubt on my own but also the Kaiser is my brother-in-law).
Sorry if I sound preachy or boring but the "pulling off something ridiculous" may be the key to your dissatisfaction. Try to play the way you want, the way you like, the way you find fun, not the way that leads to maximising your final score or your power.
There are some mongols coming yet.
At any rate, I really strong suggest that maybe playing one game in which you don't do massive powergaming (you have amply proven that you're capable to conquer half the world if you really mean it) but just simply play? In-character or in a historically reasonable way? Explore the benefits of having a good relationship with your liege and how it feels to be a loyal vassal? Or defender of your religion/culture/the poor peasants?
E:
I go on crusade in the Holy Land as an Irish king and gain control of the key territories and we're about to press our claim when my ruler decides to finally die (80 or 90 years old). I lose all holdings I conquered and am stuck weakened in enemy territory. No worries, still have enough power to take it back mostly.
I proceed to take back the land I lost when the ruler passed and Get to the last sliver on Jerusalem... that rulers dies. I then try to see if I can even handle taking anything again, decide I can't and disband the troops after bringing them home. I start to rebuild and then the new ruler dies and pretenders try to counter the legitimate heir...
I called it "Good Game" right there and quit. Last game I played a couple months ago and I'm finally back. Time to take Ireland again, properly.
Damn. Hope you're not getting behind barsI got busted with a not so small amount of weed last week and my laptop is evidence material atm.
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I got busted with a not so small amount of weed last week and my laptop is evidence material atm.
Interrupted after 630 hours:rofl: