What's your greatest defeat/downfall?
I think mine would be that I started as the Count of Lincoln, eventually worked my way up to being the Duke of York, as well as about 10 count's under me and also the Duke of Lancaster in all but name (King had the title, but I had the lands). I was the most powerful Duke in England at the time. Eventually my Duke died and his son inherited, but that's ok he seemed like a good guy. I get a message from the Count of Cornwall that he wants to make an alliance, so I tell myself ok this is a good thing, since it's nice to have an ally so close to home. A few days later the Count of Cornwall declares war on the King of England, and I accidentally included myself as his ally (many popups on the screen, I accidentally clicked 'yes' to it). So a long war happened, I lost men, the King lost men, and eventually it dwindled down to him stomping my dukedom to death and me screaming "I surrender" by trying to make peace, even throwing bags of gold and trying to give him many titles to my lands. I think it's a possibility that the King didn't like me much because I had a long war with him, whatever the case, my dynasty was destroyed.

I think mine would be that I started as the Count of Lincoln, eventually worked my way up to being the Duke of York, as well as about 10 count's under me and also the Duke of Lancaster in all but name (King had the title, but I had the lands). I was the most powerful Duke in England at the time. Eventually my Duke died and his son inherited, but that's ok he seemed like a good guy. I get a message from the Count of Cornwall that he wants to make an alliance, so I tell myself ok this is a good thing, since it's nice to have an ally so close to home. A few days later the Count of Cornwall declares war on the King of England, and I accidentally included myself as his ally (many popups on the screen, I accidentally clicked 'yes' to it). So a long war happened, I lost men, the King lost men, and eventually it dwindled down to him stomping my dukedom to death and me screaming "I surrender" by trying to make peace, even throwing bags of gold and trying to give him many titles to my lands. I think it's a possibility that the King didn't like me much because I had a long war with him, whatever the case, my dynasty was destroyed.