You're going back a bit far with your stats there Mr Drew. The big 2-1's only started the past century or so when your nation was pretty equal in MP and the Horde only added to it. Also it's tough fighting wars when to build 25k troops you have to click on 3 provinces plus the amazing German leader pool.
Anyway those are my excuses
I took it easy on the Horde early on and paid for it. Only now have I reduced it to a Moscow-friendly size after it's constant invasions and my attempts at peace.
As for the rest of the stuff, the jumping in at favourable times, the alleged gangbangs, missed peace opportunities, it's part of the game. We've all made mistakes and been soft so complaining about the unfairness of it is pointless.
I (We?) have had a great time playing this game. As I said before in the other thread this has been the best EU game I've played

My heart is not really into an historical game nowadays so I'm not sure what I'll do with the next one.
... Oh, Jenn just informed me that I have to kinder-sit until 6:00pm PST on Wed so I won't be able to start playing until 9:00ish, unless I can get our little monkey to nap or watch a Baby Einstein video