Maybe this is a cultural thing, but I find referring to peoples' concerns as "whining" to be pretty inflammatory. I have also noticed that you have taken this same approach - insulting people who are frustrated or unhappy - in a few other threads when people are expressing their concerns. Why? What do you hope to accomplish? I am curious.
As far as warfare itself, I would just like there to be enough control to simulate conflicts like the ACW where the direction of attack was really important. I want to be able to tell a general to invade down the Mississippi or across the south through Georgia. I could be wrong, but I think that this requires two things: being able to not only set objectives for a campaign, but also being able to set the starting position. If I set New Orleans as the target, then a general could start the invasion from Northern Virginia, so it would not go down the Mississippi or if I set Savannah as a target, then a general could start the invasion from Northern Virginia instead of Tennessee. In my mind, giving the direction of an attack is strategic level.
That said, I am relatively sanguine about the situation at the moment. I'll try what Paradox has in mind. Maybe what they have created will allow the above or maybe it will make the above unnecessary. We will see. If it does neither and there are enough other people who feel the way that I do (based on voting on DD, my guess is around 30% share my concerns), then I have some faith that a DLC will add it in. They have already mentioned adding strategic targets. It only takes adding starting position and we are there.