Yet another thing to add to my ever increasing list of "things I didn't know about hoi3 although I have played it for years."
This business about sending units into reinforce a battle which then get auto-retreated when the defending unit breaks really came home to bite me on the bum one time. It was defending as Russia with the June 41 scenario on very hard. With battles going on all along most of the front I became very wary about such attempts, having suffered some catastrophic losses when a fresh stack would auto-retreat right into the path of advancing Panzers and get wiped.
WIPED! WIPED OUT OF EXISTENCE! JUST LIKE ARMY GROUP PALESTINE!
Trying to micromanage the confused fighting with so many units in such a long and chaotic front made me refuse such attempts in the end. Particularly with the weird shit you mentioned about the delay, seeing them go in after the defeat and then getting auto-retreated anyway. I lost a lot of Comrades to the advancing Nazi hordes in that manner. The standard operating procedure became one of just not attempting to reinforce a battle underway. Unless it was absolutely critical, of course. Otherwise it was too much to try looking after, hour by the hour.