One thing that I've experienced and find pretty annoying in Europa Universalis is that over time, all relations between you and other countries, specially in your geographical area tend to drop. I tried playing Austria once on the grand campaigne. The goal was to annex bohemia (I know that all catholic relations drop then) and then just act diplomaticaly by forming alliances and vassalizing smaller german countries. In all ways, I tried to improve all bad relations and keeping those that were already good. This failed quite quickly... not because of me, the only thing I did to ruin relations was by compeating in trade centers (which is a really stupid rule btw... loosing 5 relation for every lost merchant.. that is far too much). The relations droped because of other countries actions. I started the game with about 100+ in relation to Spain and it dropped to about 5+ in a few years because they annexed Napoli and Navarra. And since the AI never tries to improve relations with you by sending gifts, the only way you can really improve the relations again is by spending your own money. Why?? Why should I be forced to do that because another nation screwed up?? No reason at all... So I propose this, tell me if you like it or not:
There are two relations... it indicates what you feel for the other nation and what they feel for you. Now an example: Spain annexes Navarra. Austria consider this to be a despicable act and they loose 80 in relation to spain. spain however, have no reason to quarrel with austria and their relation stays the same. Atleast for a while... if two nations relations differ too much, then they should close at somewhere around the avarage, over time. So if Frances realtion to Spain is -120 and Spains to France is +10, they should, in time end up at about -55, if they don't do anything to change it more.
Thx for reading... I know it got a bit long.
There are two relations... it indicates what you feel for the other nation and what they feel for you. Now an example: Spain annexes Navarra. Austria consider this to be a despicable act and they loose 80 in relation to spain. spain however, have no reason to quarrel with austria and their relation stays the same. Atleast for a while... if two nations relations differ too much, then they should close at somewhere around the avarage, over time. So if Frances realtion to Spain is -120 and Spains to France is +10, they should, in time end up at about -55, if they don't do anything to change it more.
Thx for reading... I know it got a bit long.