Redditors have noticed funny situations and made them into memes, I can't blame them for that. It was the developers who decided that memes would be a major element of the game.
I wouldn't even be upset if the game was primarily an RPG, the problem is that it isn't. The developers are saying that they are primarily focusing on roleplaying, but that in their understanding means events and different ways of introducing events. And how can I roleplay a medieval ruler when I keep getting events that don't fit the time period and place at all, like a surprise birthday party event or a tinder event? I can't. What they claim supports roleplaying, on the contrary, ruins roleplaying.
I haven't played Age of Wonders, so I can't say. But I've seen some Old World events, and that was completely different thing than the events in CK3. CK3 is a game that spans centuries. One day means nothing, the day in the game passes in a second. That's one of the elements of grand strategy, and the events should reflect that grandness as well. Instead we get irrelevant trivial stuff at best, silly wannabe memes at worst.
Since the developers don't seem to want to change this in any way, I would also very much welcome a game rule to limit the frequency of events. If events are already ruining my game experience, at least let them not ruin it so often. I've already suggested it here once, unfortunately without any response.
Edit:
This one meme sums it up perfectly.
https://www.reddit.com/r/CrusaderKings/comments/124rdze