Are there any? I'll probably have my first, real eu3 mutliplayer game and I'm excited and.. don't really know what to expect 
Well, let's assume you're going to be Holland since that was your pick.
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Work on your trade, try and keep infamy low, and aim for taking the provinces needed to form the Netherlands. Try and work out a deal with another major colonial power (Portugal, Spain, England, lesser extent France), as to where you will be colonizing so you two don't end up with conflicting issues.
Holland is never going to be a total power-house nation though, you will always have a lower forcelimit and smaller economy than France (unless France screws up terribly), a smaller navy than Great Britain, and less vast colonial empire than the major colonial powers.
Basically, just make good use of diplomacy and try not to be a dick or draw too much attention to yourself as Holland/Netherlands. If things start heating up unbearably in Europe you can always just move your capital to your colonial territories so that anyone who invades can just occupy the entire Netherlands and you don't have to worry about war exhaustion of province defections (at least from Dutch territories).
Oh and keep your infamy down. Destroys your trade.
Others may have different suggestions, but this is a pretty reasonable way to start, especially for someone new to Eu3 MP.
Also,
Jpvg is a stand-up chap
Sid is shifty
N00blord will troll people endlessly
Saharez sticks to deals
Scion is ambitious but generally pretty neutral
Try not to get stuck in a 1v1 with ze spider
thanks, that's some great stuff!![]()
I'm probably going to play Brunei and I'm going to be pretty alone in Asia so I will have about 70/100 years of slow build up ( or even more!) .. and it's going to be similar to Holland ( just going to form Malaya)
Don't forget that Europeans can arrive far more quickly than that.
hows that possible? The earliest I managed ( as Portugal and in Singleplayer) was in 1460, to be in India..
Don't forget that heavy traders (most notably Holland) get an enormous research boost. My guesstimate may be off by a bit but I assume that a well-played Holland may start exploration around 1430.