Thanks for your nice words, what I've been trying to do is enhance the rpg side of the game, and make the trait and personality of character really matter. I think wounded isn't so bad here in ck2 I mean it's just a cut after all, and it already has the penalty of having the chance of becoming ill from it, whereas depression had the same health and even smaller fertility penalty than stressed for example, and that just isn't right.
I thought that when you're a bastard you are somewhat always trying to legitimize your claim to the throne, therefore what you're really doing is plotting and intriguing all the time.
About the ugly part, well I probably watched too many Bond movies.