Could someone explain to me how to survive as Teutonic Order? I've failed multiple times and Poland just seems to crush me 24/7 before I can secure alliances.
Problem is more timing related. TO shouldn`t rush to war, as it will ally all it`s opponents against the threat. You opponents should start fighting eachother first, then you won`t get coalitioned nearly as bad as they would tend to hate your neighbors more than you.I dunno with this patch with the AE changes scaling to base tax but I wouldn't try to vassalize Pomerania in the first war. That got me a coalition of Brandenburg, Bohemia, Denmark/Scandinavia, 5 other HRE minors, Poland, and Lithuania. The emperor can't save you if that happens.
You can survive as TO in this patch, in fact I did, and now I`ve crushed Poland, 20 years into the game, hard AI, lucky nations on.
Austria is the key, you need to secure alliance ASAP. Get diploreputation adviser, build your army to the force limit, and build a FL of galeys, while also improving relations. Having large navy is helping Austrian desire to ally you. Also ally Livonian order.
Join HRE, it is possible, use everything you can to boost your relations. Best thing is, answer Austrian call to arms, boost relations a lot.
Don`t expect to win the first war against Poland outright. All you need to do, is to position your army so that it doesn`t get destroyed till Austrians arrive, preferably retreat to Pomerania, you can always do that if you`re in a war with the emperor on your side.
Remember, Poland is eastern tech, only engage then when you have a tech advantage, or if Austria engages them. National focus military points to be sure.
Hire +discipline or +morale adviser.
I would advice picking quantity as your first NI. It stacks well with your NIs, and you need the extra manpower, ASAP.
You don`t need to win the first war. Any truce in which you don`t lose provinces will do. Vassalise TO after first war against Poland. If you can, also vassalise Pomerania.
Backstab Poland after it fought a tough war, usually it is against Bohemia or Muscowy. Shouldn`t take more than 20-25 years for you to win first war against Poland. And even if you will lose some territory, you might reclaim it later, after you subdue some HRE minors and whatnot.