Short story shorter, here is a list of some of the events that permanently alter the stats of adult characters, complete with suggestions on how they should be changed:
evil_events 5650: huge demesne
* 50% illness instead of -health/fertility
* 50% energetic instead of +steward/intrigue (work harder)
* 50% reckless instead of intrigue (multitask)
court_events 6220: debilitating accident
* replace current effects with severely wounded, speech impediment, depression, lazy, maniac, clubfoot, hunchback
(though a chance of -20 fertility would be OK

)
character_health_events 1124: periods of catatonic schizophrenia
* use inbred instead? or maniac?
character_health_events 1133: investment obsession
* use selfish+energetic instead?
character_health_events 1134: military obsession
* use arbitrary+valorous instead?
bankruptcy_events 7224: seizure of church properties (plus order and vassal events with similar choices)
* use generous instead?
evil_events 5650: huge demesne
* 50% illness instead of -health/fertility
* 50% energetic instead of +steward/intrigue (work harder)
* 50% reckless instead of intrigue (multitask)
court_events 6220: debilitating accident
* replace current effects with severely wounded, speech impediment, depression, lazy, maniac, clubfoot, hunchback
(though a chance of -20 fertility would be OK
character_health_events 1124: periods of catatonic schizophrenia
* use inbred instead? or maniac?
character_health_events 1133: investment obsession
* use selfish+energetic instead?
character_health_events 1134: military obsession
* use arbitrary+valorous instead?
bankruptcy_events 7224: seizure of church properties (plus order and vassal events with similar choices)
* use generous instead?