What seemed like a grind was reading that it took 100's of years to fabricate claims, but that certainly isn't true since I already conqured all of northern ireland in a span of about 10 years.
Considering how unique this style of gameplay is, I don't think you should be policing threads and telling people who are discouraged with the gameplay that this "probably" isn't the right game for them. From the sound of things everybody has a certain amount of shellshock when trying to tackle this game for the first time, and it is hard enough trying to learn all this stuff without people telling you that you should just go play some other game.
As I said, I'm actually having fun with the game thanks to the *helpfull* posts in this thread.
He was just trying to help you. There is so much depth to Paradox games that it's reasonable to make fair judgements based on how you're posting. Much of what we told you isn't even absolute. Honestly, the way you presented your predicaments kinda expressed that your expectations were bordering on the unrealistic. No one here wants there to be less players, even if Paradox seems to work as hard as they can to erect the most steep learning curve possible in each of their games.