Part of what is causing the issue is your calculations are not taking into account the same gravity or rather simulated gravity everyone else is.
Artificial gravity is in fact the one and only factor I thought significant enough to include. The acceleration of artificial gravity would be 1 G in my reckoning. There are many things that can sustain a sheer force of 1 G. A simple wooden bridge sustains a force of 1 G. The effect is purely localized although the sheer force would be slightly greater in some locations because the design wouldn't be perfectly uniform.
Please tell me why you think there would be a force vastly in excess of 1 G.