I just didnt understand what was happening here
Firstly, I have never saved and loaded, 'cept to save when I goto bed and load int he morning :rofl:
Yea, Im a bit of a badboy, I jumped from 11 to 36 when I annexed Burgundy, and that was the only major power that I annexed, luckily I have a diplo 8 leader so that brought me right to under my limit, and Ive been throwing tons and tons of cash at the curia to keep in control to help me drop those points and im at 30.66 right now, Im going to wait till I get back down to around 10 before I try to annex anything else.
I do throw alot of coin into the treasury, making about 68.1 in profit, investing a total of about 59.3 in tech and 9.4 for my military. My total inflation is 39.5, with a change of 0.57 with my current budget.
My tech levels in order are 9,5,4,2,3
As far as wars go, they're never an issue, look at my forcelimit

I usually have about 1500 coins sitting in my treasury (I just built a university in that screenshot to get rid of some extra coin) and I have enough forces, about 30,000 troops stationary to hold off assaults then I just set almost every province to build either Maurician infantry or Eastern Hussars or whatever happens to be available, all of burgundy lets me build the Maurician infantry, and the entire eastern border lets me build eastern hussars, otherwise im stuck with men at arms and latin knights

Hungary did declare war on me, and I held them off until my forces built and well... look at them now

I think Military Drill idea is helping me out
I think the issue I have with diplo-annex, is the fact I regularly at the beginning offer-vassalised and diplo-annexed countries twice my size without an issue! One time, I vassalised 3 countries my own size and bigger in a ROW without any turn downs!
Please, any suggestions and help would be most welcomed! I'm trying to be able to keep up with the tech and I just cant except for apparently in government
And taking someones suggestion, I'm going to play as Serbia. I don't have a game manual however, so any suggestions on how to keep up with tech would be greatly appreciated! Thanks guys