Martinus said:Still, the fact that it was normal for a lord to have many bastards and the wife was not supposed to complain kinda invalidates the argument that she would complain about him using his Ius Primae Noctis right.
Marriages in middle ages were arranges and very rarely involved love. It was actually expected (if perhaps not encouraged) of the lord to seek more carnal pleasures out of the marriage bond, while the marriage itself served only for the propagating of his line. And, to what Slargos was I believe implying, it was I think only the 19th or even 20th century that came up with a concept of rape within marriage.
I disagree. In fact, I think the initial point was very fair. Certainly a queen was a quite important figure and marital discord a serious problem, no matter what you may contend. The idea that it did not matter what the queen thought because the queen could simply be locked up and "raped" every few nights to produce an hier is an idea I find absurd. A queen certainly served more purposes than simply propogating a line. Further, there is a big difference in many women's eyes I suspect between tolerating simple affairs and tolerating the engaging of the law to obtain sex on specific and public dates with unwilling women. I wonder if your current dissatisfaction with contemporary definitions of marriage isn't causing you to attempt to redefine the nature of medieval marriage.
In popular culture there is the idea that primae noctis was widespread throughout western europe. This idea has been rather thoroughly demolished in this thread. You then say: "Well, we can still have it around Poland in the game because at this time we were much more barbaric than other parts of Europe." That may well be true. For all I know, it may even hold true today. But your logic ignores a crucial fact--there is still no convincing evidence it existed in Poland, and the simple barbarism of Poles is not enough to prove the existence of primae noctis.
So then why would the event be including in the game in any location? I can only see one answer: because of the modern day myth. And yes, I know this is just a game and a game can include mythology if it wants. However, the question many have about this game is whether it will recreate the flavor of the actual period or the flavor of the mythology of the period. The inclusion of primae noctis does not condemn the game by itself, but it is a good indication that the game is recreating the mythology rather than the reality. As someone who wants to play a more historical game, I am disturbed by this.
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