A lot of you pals just need to learn some god damned self control. If you want a game you can't cheat in, just stop cheating. Don't reload. Don't do it.
Learning how to have discipline is a good thing in most every area of your life. If you NEED ironman to keep from reloading the game, you have a far bigger problem than lucky nations, and the rest of us don't want that to influence decisions about our own games. Maybe I'm a jerk for saying it this way, but I frankly don't care. Games should not coddle poor personal behavior. I don't want the game balanced around me being unable to keep from playing dirty, any more than I'd want some artificial timer that tells me when I must stop playing and go exercise or whatever.
All that aside, lucky nations are really awful in how they're done. They don't make the countries lucky at all. They just make them better. They still get awful events and other garbage outcomes. Hell, I think France does better with lucky off, since they're then even more powerful than the neighbors that matter and also lost it. I don't mind lucky nations but I do mind how "lucky" is so poorly implemented in the first place. It needs to be more of a block towards bad things happening to them, such as awful rulers or peasant wars and other crushing misfortune, rather than its current implementation as basically a bonus towards rampant expansion.