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An incident occurred in the Casual Saturday game (also called Loafer’s Saturday). I would like to hear the opinion of other players on this matter.

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I played OE, Cheecho RUS and HG was GM and played NETH.

June 4, 1631 : Russia declared war upon Ottoman Empire."

This was to be the third war between us. I DOWed Russia in around 1540 and he me some years later.

A little time after the DOW RUS attacked me in Thrace. I retreated into Macedonia. RUS followed and I retreated from Macedonia to Smyrna. RUS started a siege in Thrace and Macedonia and also had two sieges further up Balkan. Our armies on other fronts did not move. I started a huge rearmament, building armies all over, moving armies to better positions etc.

Somewhere after Oct 17: “Cheecho (RUS) left the game”

I did not notice this message.

Then HG asks me ingame “Is it a real war with OE, Daniel?
I answer: “Yes it is real.”

By mistake he writes OE instead of RUS, this has nothing to do with the actual incident.

Why I noticed this message of his but not the one about Cheech chrashing I don’t know, perhaps because I saw “Daniel” in HG’s question and reacted subconsciously. In this context I would like to point at my post 47 in the game thread where I say

Daniel A said:
I just want to add that I did not participate in any such voting. I must have missed that question as I missed several other messages, as well from Sterk as from Cheech. When I am in war I tend to miss a lot of messages.

Do you guys have the same problem or is it just me :(

When HG asked me if the war was real I remember that I wondered a little why he asked me that. What kind of interest did he have in our business? But I rapidly decided I had no time to look into that matter now, I had to continue build up and checking if RUS attacked on any other front (we had four fronts in total). This was a war I did not want to lose, RUS already owned Bulgaria on the doorstep of Thrace, but I had several factors in my favour, such as LT and income.

In November my army in Smyrna had been rebuilt to some 70k IIRC and I was ready to counterattack in Macedonia where RUS had only a 10k army sieging. I embarked my army on a fleet and then landed them in Macedonia around December 1st and eliminated the Russian army. Looking back I might have reflected upon how easy this little victory was but the fact is I did not. Cheecho is a better warrior than me and my focus was to make sure he did not concentrate his armies on some other front and outmaneuvered me, not on questioning my own successes. I continued building armies and it may also be around here that I landed a little army in Djugdur, a RUS TP (I cannot find the date for this landing in the save which may indicate it occurred much later, after the date of my save, i.e. in March). I also tried to release a Leader from my army in Armenia to transfer him to Thrace. “Damned lag” I said to myself when nothing happened. Then I noticed a lot of “X has left the game” and understood that a rehost took place. It was now around Jan 1.

At this moment none of my armies were on Russian territory (with the possible exception of Djugdur) while RUS sieged Thrace and two provinces up Balkan. The battles so far had been three, he winning in Thrace and in Macedonia and I in Macedonia. I remember having checked the war score after the second battle in Macedonia and it was 2-1 to RUS.

Around Jan 13 “cheecho: hey OE attacked me when i crashed"
"HG: After he knew you'd crashed, as a matter of fact."
"HG: Because I saw the sieges after I mentioned it."
"HG: Bad pool, Daniel."

After some time I notice these messages and respond:

"Daniel A: I did not know he chrshed"
"HG: I told you he crashed, Daniel."
"HG :I asked if it was a real war."
"Daniel A: I did not know I say"

We had a rule about “usual exploit stuff” being forbidden. That rule obviously covers this case. Not that anyone needs it, to attack a chrashed player is of course out of the question. However: to intentionally do what is forbidden is to cheat in my vocabulary. Thus, by stating that I knew that Cheech had chrashed HG implicitly stated that I had cheated. You can perhaps imagine how I felt being portraited as a cheater without having had the chance to defend myself before that statement was made. I believed this was such a serious matter that I could not discuss the matter and at the same time make war. Hence I paused the game and said:

"Daniel A: Now we will sort this out"

"HG: Unpause."
"Daniel A: I ask for an apology"
"HG: We know you knew."

Note that this last statement implicitly means that my previous statement “I did not know” was a lie. Also note how the earlier implicit “I know” has been changed to “We know”.

"Daniel A: No one is going to say i behave badly"
"HG: It's in the log."

It continued like this some more.

When the GM, without consulting me, implicitly first states that I had cheated and then secondly that I had lied and further did not want to apologise, I then considered these attacks on my personal character that serious that not only had I lost the joy of gaming but I also came to the conclusion that the contract between myself and the fellows in the game had been nullified. N.b. by the GM, not by myself. Thus I said I wanted an apology in 10 seconds and when I did not get it I left the game.

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I have eliminated some verbal abuse and also some comments from several other players who asked me to unpause.

In case someone wants to read the game log it is on the Russian site.
http://www.europa2.ru/cgi-bin/leagu...=ic&season=Valkyrie.net V&lang=eng&choicet=14

Another point of some value is that HG, DSY and myself had a discussion about rules in another thread.

http://forum.paradoxplaza.com/forum/showthread.php?t=188577&page=5&pp=25

There HG wrote:

HolisticGod said:
DSY,
"I play games with people who don't put a whole lot of stock in resorting to definitions and rules. People I like to play with resolve issues harmoniously through application of the Golden Rule."

That's it exactly.

The quote at the top is by DSY and the “That’s it exactly” is HG’s comment to the quote.

Now imagine the following conversation in the actual game

Cheecho: “hey OE attacked me when i crashed"
HG: “Daniel, how do you explain this?”
Daniel: “Oh sorry guys, I did not notice he chrashed.”
HG: “Ah, that was unfortunate. Let’s pause the game and decide what to do. Cheech, will you please state your loss from what happened. And Daniel, will you please state what actions you took after the chrash. Then we will reach a solution that is equitable for all parts involved.”

And so on.

Well, that would have been “harmoniously”. Do you not agree?

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And of course, this would never have happened at all if the GM had made an immediate rehost when Cheecho crashed.
 

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Yeah, in my opinion it was an honest mistake by you. And although they were wrong to accuse you, storming out of the game didn't help as it could probably have been settled by you paying him some money for however much of his army you destroyed and that would have been that. Leaving has created a much bigger mess that necessary.
 

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well, it's quite possible that you missed some messages. (I miss or semi-miss messages all the time, in fact :rolleyes: )

And a GM saying "rehost in Jan" to me signifies someone crashed... but not that he/she is my enemy in a war (in fact, I would assume it was not my enemy)

and he did not in fact mention who crashed... you could have deduced it with some thinking- but you're usually not in the business of thinking when there's a war going on :)

All in all, I'd say it was a miscomunication.
Everyone apologize, group hug, and presto :rolleyes:
 

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IMO It's HG's fault for not rehosting right away. It's not up to the opponent (although that's no reason not to sing out if you realise) to be the one who gets everyone to rehost.
 
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Mulliman said:
That you did it on purpose, when you state you didnt?

He claimed I did it "on purpose". I understood that. No misunderstanding.

I claimed I did not. Do you mean he misunderstood this? That he misunderstood my simple statement "I did not know he chrshed". May I ask what part of that sentence you believe may be misunderstood?
 
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Ah, since you are "green", you have not learned the....nuances....of HolisticGod. See, he expected that when asked you "Is this a fake war", you knew that he also meant "because if it is a fake war there is no rush to rehost". Now as poor a fact-finding question as that was, I would have misunderstood him had I not seen that Cheech was crashed and I know HoG very well.

As with the debate over rules, my questioning of HoG's GMing rears it ugly head. Not that he approves of my GMing :D However, since it appears that he quit WAR III without so much as a single post or ICQ message or showing up for the game; my tolerance for him is very low at the moment. I find it very suspicious that he doesnt show up after the session where I sacked his capital (Constantinople) in 1515 and pushed his armies across the Bosphorous. Very suspicious indeed.

But with HoG, anything goes. So dont be surprised
 
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Well, I have got the question "is it a fake war" before. And then it was not a question of rehost. But I can see now, that in this case that was the reason he asked.

Last night, by coincidence, ForzaA should have asked that question in a non-rehost situation. :)

I (AUS) was in a fake war with FRA and then he (OE) DOWed me, as I understood he hoped I would have a 2-front war. But that was not the case and when poor Forza realised his mistake and had taken some defeats he had to leave with his tail between his legs (as the Swedish proverb goes :D ).
 
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If I may, what is the point to this whole thread?

If it is a rant about what happened, which it certainly reads like (and I am not saying I blame Daniel for ranting), then it really has no useful purpose; I don't like the idea of disguising a rant with a topic heading which appears to indicate reasoned discussion, when the true intent is to allow people to vent feelings.

If it is an attempt to invite true discussion, it really belongs in the thread for the game, or it should be sanitized so that the becomes a more generalized discussion about these types of situations. As it is, it appears to be nothing more than a: "I don't like what HoG did as GM and who agrees with me!?" thread, which really isn't very useful, or particularly considerate to the person in question. I notice it is attracting plenty of commentary from those who don't like how that GM runs a game.

If you don't like what a GM has done, you always have the ability to discuss with him after the fact in a reasoned fashion. I have personally received apologies from the GM in question for the fact that he said/did things based upon incorrect understanding of a situation, so I know that he can be reasonable, when approached reasonably. I'm not surprised that some of the posters in this thread have had trouble; they haven't ever shown me to be willing to address an issue reasonably (it appears to be an elitist failing ;) ). And *I* will be the first to admit that I have had situations go poorly, through no fault of my own, making me feel like chucking the whole thing in the trash can.

My advice: wait four days, then talk to the GM. Reasonably. Discuss first with friends calmly, and listen to what they say (don't argue with them; it just shows you are being stubborn). If you don't get satisfaction (note, I don't say, "if you don't get your way"!), consider avoiding that particular GM in the future. But let's not start threads that seek only to vent spleen and gain support for one's feelings in the matter. :)
 

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Daniel A said:
I (AUS) was in a fake war with FRA and then he (OE) DOWed me, as I understood he hoped I would have a 2-front war. But that was not the case and when poor Forza realised his mistake and had taken some defeats he had to leave with his tail between his legs (as the Swedish proverb goes :D ).

Actually.. no.. I didn't hope for a two front war :p

I hoped for an entertaining war (and I personally don't like 2 front wars, so I was afraid you'd get "somewhat" frustrated with a 2 front war)

And there was no defeat or leave with tails and legs :p

it was an orderly regrouping to winter quarters :) [turns out it was a very long winter... :p ]