which is, it is sooooo much easier to play the game like this (i.e. start out as an OPM, and then create your own kingdom/empire), than starting as, say, king of XYZ and try to manage the existing structure (i.e. superdukes, dukes that hate your guts, dukes from your bloodline (which is never ever a good idea), dukes that own counts from other de jure dukedoms, dukes that will revolt/join a faction just for the heck of it...).
this might be an obvious thing, but I find it so impossible managing existing kingdoms that this almost feels like cheating : )
this might be an obvious thing, but I find it so impossible managing existing kingdoms that this almost feels like cheating : )