Well, I was thinking more of the repetitive royal court events when I wrote this. Regardless, you are right that I shouldn't have written that as it detracts from the discussion.
Fun fact on this, actually: for Tournament Locale events
alone, there's about two thirds more than Hold Court events.
Great news

Any chance you could say which ones?
There's a few various events covering both of your first two points, and a couple of special event options for the same in otherwise-normal events. Hopefully you run into them!
(my favourite is the one where you have your rival at your mercy in the melee and you have the opportunity to enact some real punishment)
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