1. Don't follow guides which tell you exactly how to play certain nations, e.g. attack country X, ally country Y etc.
2. Watch/read guides introducing you into
mechanics of the game (handling economy of the country, technology, diplomacy, waging wars- this is all covered by tutorials).
3. Accept that tutorials
will not give a real feeling of the game- your own experience will.
4. Understand that in game such as EUIV you need to think
strategically, i.e. plan in short term, try to anticipate medium term, set goals for a long term.
5. Remember that making friendships (remember, friendships is all about common interest only!) and alliances is as important as declaring wars in this game.
6.
Read
7. One more time- remember that it's all mostly about strategy, not necessarily tactics. Know the difference.
Basically when starting up a game as a new country always follow some steps:
1. Check your economy.
2. Check your forces.
3. Check your friends/enemies/potential enemies.
4. Set up short term and long term goals (it doesn't have to be conquest from the start).
5. Remember- the more big neighbour the higher threat for you. Try to ally some powerful neighbour.