Thank you! Indeed, I had the peaceful conversion happen, only not for the province I wanted it the most 
Sorry for all the questions, but I have another one:
I am the King of Sicily (started as Apulia, because it was recommended as a good starting country). I have all the lands of the Kingdom, with Sicily proper and Napoli in my personal demesne. My capital changed from Apulia to Napoli when I formed the Kingdom of Sicily - I assume it is because Napoli is richer, and has the correct religion (in contrast to the provinces I took from the muslims on sicily). I have been trying to convert Palermo to move my capital there, but no luck.
However I have been quite lucky in catching the Duke of Toscana at a good moment, and made them my vassal after a war. They had like 10 italian counts under themAnyway, I have almost expanded enough in Italy to usurp the King of Italy title from its current holder (a weak 1 province King). Additionally, I took Alexandria in a crusade (very rich!) and also grabbed Venice (that was tough... they can field a REALLY big army).
Now, the questions are, where do I set up my capital? Which of the two King titles will be my primary title? The one which I've had longer, or the one with more provinces attached to it? This is important, as my capital will change to a province withing my demesne and within my primary king title's area, correct?
I would like to keep Venice and Alexandria (they are soooo rich), but I don't want my capital there, as it would be isolated. Of course Rome would be a great option (the pope has some lands in the east, so I hope he won't be too mad), but the surrounding provinces are not that great if I remember right (not at my game pc right now). The other option would be sicily, but palermo has not converted yet... Oh the options... I have to decide on one of those, and give up one of the major areas I fear (Sicily, or Rome + 2 provinces around it + napoli + salerno) because of inefficiency
Any thoughts?
Ah, thanks for the info. As my King still has Norman culture, pretty much all provinces are wrong culture provinces, correct?
So, I guess I can move the capital to Palermo (once it converts), but not to Rome, since that is part of the Kingdom of Italy. Ok, sounds fineMaybe I'll give Rome (and the corresponding ducal title - should be Spolento?) to my heirs to hold onto, or something.
Though until Palermo converts, my capital will probably stay in Napoli... or maybe I can move to Messina, that province is catholic already. I want to tidy up my demesne, and having napoli as capital + Rome + 2 others in the area, and sicily, and venice, and Alexandria is a bit too messy for my tastes
Does the capital move automatically once an appropriate higher income province becomes egligible for capital, or do I have to give the current capital to someone else (i.e. my heir, so it will come back to the royal demesne)?
Hope you don't mind me posting here, seems silly to start another new thread for new player questions.
I've just recently installed CK (had it for a little while but hadn't got round to installing it), and was wondering if I should install any mods from the get-go or if I should just play the base game to get used to it? Also, what is a good starting nation to play as? I tried a quick game as a Welsh nation (forgot the name, sorryo) and I didn't really have much to do and wasn't sure what options were available to me.
Thank youAs for mods, it depends on whether you have just CK or also the DV expansion
As for starting nations, usually abig independent duchy or small kingdom is ideal, as you will have stuff to do, and won't be overwhelmed. Duchy of Apulia, Kingdoms or Sweden, Denmark or Poland are good starter nations. They have a suitable size with a few vassals, and nearby heathens to beat up on.
Thank you
I do have DV, I forgot to mention, so was interested in whether the DVIP made enough improvements to be worth not starting a new game without installing it.
A count will only offer to become your vassal if you hold his default 'higher' title and if your reputation is honourable and be at peace.
Wrong. I have the latest beta and the Duke of Slavonia offered to me when I wasn't his corresponding king. Former vassals who break away can offer to come back into the fold.
That is different ... the answer was to if the vassal will ever accept YOUR vassalization proposal, not whether he would offer it himself.
A count will only offer to become your vassal if you hold his default 'higher' title and if your reputation is honourable and be at peace.