This is very important to me, because I really really can't bear any more of the repetitive Mongol grind in the Levant, Asia Minor etc., which I end up doing no matter where I start. (So far: Greater Poland > Poland, Cornwall > BunchaStuff, France, Pisa > United States of the Med). I'm also still under the influence of dealing with the Mongols in EU3 (100 years of war in which Poland colonised all the way west to Siberia and then the same with the hordes that then appeared at the border etc. all the way to the Manchus) and CK1 (losing miserably IIRC) and Medieval I-II (for which, of course, Paradox is not responsible

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In short, while I perhaps wouldn't mind a bunch of realistic Mongols like the settled khaganates in later scenarios, I really don't want to end up holy-warring the Golden Horde, the Ilkhanate, the Timurids and the Huge Non-Mongol Muslim Power intermittently for their gains, becoming the new non-emperor of the East one more time. I just can't handle that.
Ergo, is there a mod that rationalises the Mongols or turns them off or what can I do in the files to come up with some decent results? I mostly don't want 120K stacks marching through 7K desert counties at impunity whereas I can't stack much more than 30K without penalties in metropolies. On the other hand, if I want to write an AAR again that's enjoyable, I probably shouldn't really remove the Mongols entirely.