Maybe make 2 versions of the Carousing event. One uses the Focus, the other triggers randomly. The random trigger has the requirement that the player does not have WoL active (like how the ambitions to raise Diplomacy/Martial/Etc only show up if you lack WoL)
That could work, in fact I think I can just make this all decisions. The could be two decision versions. One which appears with WoL enabled, and one without WoL. The WoL version will require carousing focus, while Non WoL will not require it. Both decisions would fire the same events though, so much less effort done. Anybody know if that would work? As to Anguished, there is no way I could go without a Lannister reference, I am in love with ASoIaF (or GoT for those show-watching halfbreeds). Before I go, anybody able to think of a historical situation where two wards fell in love? So far all I can think of is Romeo and Juliet, but they were just teens, not even living in the same place. Much less sharing a mentor.
EDIT: Just thought of this, should there be like a hidden homosexual trait for same sex ward-lovers? That way they aren't hated by all religious figures 'cause no one would know.
EDIT 2: Fifth page! Woot Woot!