Unfortunately, it's very difficult to marry your females who are past childbearing years; few of any rank want to marry them and when you click on their rings in the portrait view you only get a list of suitors in your own realm, not suitors from all over as you used to. But even searching the world is quite difficult as, like I said, few want to marry them.
However, bastards *have* to marry matrilinearly, so as long as they're not in line for succession they'll marry into your court even to your old infertile females. However, my problem is that there's no way to filter for bastards, or indeed any particular trait, in the search window. That would be a nice addition. And putting all eligible bastard husbands in the list of potential suitors in the rings portrait view search thingy would be even nicer....
However, bastards *have* to marry matrilinearly, so as long as they're not in line for succession they'll marry into your court even to your old infertile females. However, my problem is that there's no way to filter for bastards, or indeed any particular trait, in the search window. That would be a nice addition. And putting all eligible bastard husbands in the list of potential suitors in the rings portrait view search thingy would be even nicer....