You are preaching to the choir m8. A huge% of this community has no actual idea how MP games work. I have around 1.5k hours in euIV and 90% of it has been MP. SP and MP are two entirely different games.
Someone said how Italy is one of the strongest countries, i laughed so hard. In MP Italy gets roflstomped easily, since MP games always come down to two factors: income and army quality. 5% disc goes a long, long way in MP. And this is why France and Otto will always dominate MP. And if you think it's because they can blob then you are wrong, Muscovy can blob hard but it has no army quality whatsoever and just serves as cannon fodder.
But you will always get people like the guy above me making stupid suggestions such as give Italy general pip bonus, which gives you virtually nothing. Offensive ideas and good army tradition give you 6/6 pip generals more often than not.
But there is a reason I call all minors parasites in MP games. They survive only if the majors around them allow them to do so. And if Austria/France/Otto are manned by agressive players (and they always should be) minors don't survive more than two sessions. In reality, if players in Italy survive then i have to say that Austria/France are manned by bad players, since northern italy and lowlands should always be prime targets for those two.
(that is in a classic MP setting, optimaly balanced MP game should put all nations with same ideas, same starting dev etc, that way you would be able to actualy fit a lot more people in europe, primi mod did something similar)
And if there is one nation that is in dire need of army quality buffs then it's Russia.
But overall i would agree, Italian minors should get mil buffs.