I've been hooked on stellaris lately, but I use lots of mods too. Also, play the way you want, that's fun for you. Tons of mods on steam that can fix stuff up with combat and ship types and loadouts, even ship behavior in combat. It can make things really interesting.
I've got mods that make missiles worth it and quite dangerous, improve strike craft and make them more dangerous, and also boost research since starting from the beginning really sucks when what I really wanna do is get into fleets composed of the heavier ships w/ better weapons.