I found a super easy edit that will fix the "full status of women" and "enatic/absolute cognatic" not applying properly to equality/enatic clan realms

[GuardianGI]

Find event HF.23035 in Crusader Kings II\events\HF_religious_events.txt file and delete "is_save_game=no" from trigger conditions. This makes every realm properly reapply status of women and enatic/absolute cognatic succ laws every time you load a save game.

No more will claimant wars, giving titles and demand conversions bug the title into agnatic/agnatic cognatic succ with a missing/broken "status of women" law. Also your holy order will also now turn properly feminist.

This is such a weird and simple oversight from the devs. The issue it might cause is that if you want to use elective and/or enatic-cognatic instead of enatic open succession then it reverts back to the latter if you load the save game but this can be fixed by editing HF.23035 some more:
if = {
limit = {
ROOT = {
NOT = { has_law = succ_byzantine_elective }
add this>>>>>>>>>>>NOT = { has_law = succ_feudal_elective }
OR = {
is_feudal = yes
is_tribal = yes
is_nomadic = yes
}
}
}
add_law = {
law = succ_turkish_succession
cooldown = no
opinion_effect = no
}
}

and replace

add_law = {
law = enatic_succession
cooldown = no
opinion_effect = no
}

with

if = {
limit = {
ROOT = {
NOT = { has_law = enatic_cognatic_succession }
}
}
add_law = {
law = enatic_succession
cooldown = no
opinion_effect = no
}
}