Who controls the other 50%? If they're also steering, then that goes somewhere else. If they're steering AGAINST one of the nodes you control fully, then the amount they steer reduces the amount you steer. Pretty simple actually. If you bring 10 ducats (100% of node 1) to node 2, where you're collecting, but someone else is bringing 5 ducats from node 2 to node 1, then, at the end, you have 5 ducats moving from node 1 to node 2.
Assume both nodes started with 10 ducats. Node 1 now has 5 ducats (no collectors, it is lost) and node 2 has 15 ducats. If you are the only collector in that node, you loot 15 ducats. Otherwise, the 15 is split amongst the collectors (steerers already had their effect).
Now, in this example, steering into a node someone else controls 100% is, just like in the game now, a terrible idea.
You say that the trade value would grow each month, but it would only be based on the province value, calculated once per month, then modified by you efficiency or whatever.
In the above example, if you had 50% bonus trade efficiency, you'd collect 22.5 instead of 15.
If you had improved steering, then the amount you would steer could be increased. (Let's say 15%.) So, you steer 11.5, the other guy 5, now 6.5 ducats move into node 2. At node 1: 3.5 remain, node 2: 16.5. The total value is the same, but you got more of your money where you wanted it. Exactly the point of steering power (or whatever it' called.

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Now, I suppose you could run into an issue if there's no opposing steerer and you have bonus steering power, but maybe you could have an effective value or a power vs. power set up, so the total amount of money doesn't increase just from steering.