this is backing up a bit, but i don't see the relevance of having a danish king on the throne of norway to establish their special relationship. numerous countries had foreign kings, especially around the time of victoria, off the top of my head i'm thinking bulgaria, greece, belgium, and even spain almost got a hohenzollern! the monarch's relation is to other monarchs, not to the people, for ties of nationalism and culture, having a danish monarch just doesn't hold.