So I help an ally out in a war where I ship my army half way across Europe. The war ends and I can't send my troops back other than walking them back, am I missing something?
Usually, once both of the betrothed people come of age (16), you get a pop-up at the top of the screen saying "Betrothed Can Marry". Clicking on that should bring up the character sheet for your side of the betrothal. You can then Arrange Marriage (don't have to break the betrothal).Also one more question when I do a bethroal and they come of age I don't see an option for them to marry they just stay bethroed and I have to break it and do marriage.