While you are waiting for the official patch, allow me to reveal a hidden cheat in Rome:VV... Arranged Marriages. If you would like to turn off automatic character marriages, it is actually possible. Just type "marriages" in the console. After that, you must select spouses for your characters yourself. Just click the character portrait in the family tree (in the Dynasty View, the one next to "Spouse".) Note that this cheat is saved in your settings, so arranged marriages will still be turned on if you reload the game.
Now, there is a reason why this is a hidden feature. It's a debug cheat that I added at some point after release, so the interface is a bit clunky. Also, I would only recommend it with the latest beta patch. Enjoy!
Now, there is a reason why this is a hidden feature. It's a debug cheat that I added at some point after release, so the interface is a bit clunky. Also, I would only recommend it with the latest beta patch. Enjoy!