I've never had anyone with +200 relations declare a liberation war. But I'm not sure that higher relations was ever sufficient deterrent, if they are significantly stronger than you.
France doesn't have any CB against me, at least. The difference in size is abstracted by a malus in relation, -26 for me, which would probably mean I'm a quarter of their total power. The wiki is unclear about that, so I wondered if anyone had a definite answer. I guess I will try that and return here in a few days when I will have the answer. I will also try the questions thread. I would really like to know in what I will be, in order to not take unconsidered risks and finish in extreme trouble.
Staying at war IS a sufficient deterrent. And if France is your lapdog, you might not stay significantly weaker for long...
You are probably right, tought I'm trying to be elected emperor, so I don't want to too much affect the balance of the HRE (balance which I think I destroyed...).