OK, I've covered the basics. I have an RM, alliance, +200 relations, nobody's at war, and we're both Catholic. And neither of us is already a vassal of anybody else.
I also noticed in the manual that I can't have fewer provinces than the vassallee (how's that for a naughty-sounding EU2 term?). I have 14 to Castile's 12. I've annexed Gibraltar, Languedoc, Limousin, and Maine, while Castile has annexed Granada and Provence. It's only 1437, so they can't have already explored and colonized anything yet.
After waiting a year for him to end his war with Scotland, I figure this is finally my chance to attempt a diplo-annex (and probably fail, but I gotta try). I can't see any reason not to be able to offer vassalization, yet it is still grayed out (no diplomats en route, other diplo options are available). And here's the kicker. A week later he offers to vassalize me! What's up with that? Is there some other undocumented factor involved that I'm missing? I mean, I could understand if he just refused, but I don't even get the option, and I am bigger than him, I have more VPs, he does have more troops, but my army's not too shabby either. My diplo skills are yellow (5 or 6). I thought that low diplo skills would hurt my chances of success, but I should still be allowed to make the attempt.
Is there anyone wiser and more experienced than I that can shed some light on my dilemma? Any clues would be greatly appreciated.
I also noticed in the manual that I can't have fewer provinces than the vassallee (how's that for a naughty-sounding EU2 term?). I have 14 to Castile's 12. I've annexed Gibraltar, Languedoc, Limousin, and Maine, while Castile has annexed Granada and Provence. It's only 1437, so they can't have already explored and colonized anything yet.
After waiting a year for him to end his war with Scotland, I figure this is finally my chance to attempt a diplo-annex (and probably fail, but I gotta try). I can't see any reason not to be able to offer vassalization, yet it is still grayed out (no diplomats en route, other diplo options are available). And here's the kicker. A week later he offers to vassalize me! What's up with that? Is there some other undocumented factor involved that I'm missing? I mean, I could understand if he just refused, but I don't even get the option, and I am bigger than him, I have more VPs, he does have more troops, but my army's not too shabby either. My diplo skills are yellow (5 or 6). I thought that low diplo skills would hurt my chances of success, but I should still be allowed to make the attempt.
Is there anyone wiser and more experienced than I that can shed some light on my dilemma? Any clues would be greatly appreciated.