Giving away land to another kingdom and question about church capital counties.

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Basically after a messy and long war with Norway I've now got scattered Norwegian holdings, including Iceland. I gave the Kingdom of Norway back to a Norwegian lord, but I'm still left with various provinces all over the place. Considering all the current counts and dukes hate me. ALL I want to do is give all them back to the Norwegian crown; but I can't find anyway to do so.

Am I missing something?

Concerning the prince-bishopric of Worcester; whats up with that? Because it is a church type capital I can't hold it myself, so I gift to a bishop and the income penalty goes away, yet no matter what the bishop will always have -30 wrong government type - so annoying.

 

[Shuriken]

I had the same issue playing as Ireland. My king went nuts, so, figuring he was about to die, I gave everything to my eldest son, to make sure the realm remained intact. Between this and the actual death of my king, the son took a random county in Spain that wouldn't stop revolting. If I let it revolt away I'd lose crown authority, which I wasn't willing to do.

It doesn't seem right. I should be able to give whatever I want to whoever. France would have loved the county.