I would normally say that a WP for all involved sounds like the best answer instead of ruining our countries but that would be incredibly unfair to Barca (and myself).
This the THIRD time we have ended up with a virtual all-out war with the lame excuse that Barca is too powerful.
The first time, Barca was gangbanged by a group of greedy countries trying to take advantage of his weakness, ME, and they succeeded. Habs, CC, Cat and Navarre (Drake I think) declared war, out of the blue, on Barca and myself. I was in the middle of low stab, no income, and no military, so wasn't able to land any real support to Barca (my army was 20K and could only be raised 3K at a time).
The result was Barca losing Ganges some SA provinces (and maybe something else, I forget).
The second time, some greedy players took advantage of the Knights declaring war on me, and penalized Barca for coming to his allies aid by trying to gangbang him again.
This was Habs, CC, and Navarre (Specterx) against Barca and myself. However, this time Barca had made tremendous personal sacrifices to ensure that I was a worthwhile ally, and frankly, that my country was worth playing.
We managed to stalemate Habs and CC in Europe than Barca paid a province (anhalt?) and cash to PP to help break that stalemate.
Habs and CC dropped out and we continued fighting with Navarre until Habs and CC threatened to come back while PP wanted nothing more to do with it.
The result was Barca losing Anhalt and gaining nothing.
Ok, now this third war, not a war of greed on Barca's part, but a war to RECLAIM a lost province, Ganges. A province that Barca took the time to discover, the time to wrestle from it's former owner, and the time to invest in it period.
It was clearly stated at the beginning that Ganges was his war aim.
So, the war starts. Barca calls me because he knows Specterx will call Cat, and he does, and that Habs will soon follow, and he does. Truthfully, if Cat doesn't join than it's a 1 vs 1 war because I do not have the land connection or navy to invade Navarre.
Barca quickly racks up WS versus Navarre and I take ALL of Cat's Egyptian provinces (Alexandria, Delta, Nile, and Cataract) plus Apulia with Messina almost finished and Sicily to follow.
Barca has 99% WS versus Specterx and Cat.
Along comes Habs and now PP, so that's 4 vs 2, and maybe next session CC joins in making it 5 vs 2.
Barca just wants the return of a STOLEN province, he doesn't want something he never had, and doesn't want the full FIVE provinces for an allied victory.
I am willing to forget the fact that I have A LOT of Cat area under my control, say goodbye to all my cash I have spent on troops, ships, and other stuff, if we can ALL just agree to give Barca back what is rightfully his, Ganges, and everyone else WP.
Truthfully, and I speak for myself because I am not sure where Barca stands, I have no problems ruining my country over this issue. The way I see it, this is it for the game. If Barca and I back down over a legimate war, that we have a perfect right to fight than that's the game. From than on, anyone can attack us, declare the usual Jihad, and force us to give them what they want, or the world will take it. All the time knowing we can never get it back because the original aggressor will scream that "barca is becoming too powerful" and the gangbang will ensue.
Also truthfully, I like our chances, I haven't had to fight in Europe, as I stated I cannot reach Navarre, so I have over 260 MP left and unlimited cash from Barca to convert it to troops.
I am not certain of CC's state but I don't think most of you have much MP left and Barca has some mighty big forts and attrition to grind it down.
So yeah, I like our chances, with some luck and skill, Barca and I can pull off a major victory (you don't beat 5 on 2 odds much), and THAN the demands will really change.
Is it worth losing FIVE european provinces, countless loans, and whatever else damage may result over ONE stolen province?