Bullshit. First war against France featured a totally overrun France. I didn't claim a single province*
Translation: "How dare you accuse me of this behavior, look at this single exception!"
Either way, lets look at what happened in closer detail. It began when you (or Wyvern, I forget which) messaged me as Venice, and stated "Austria and I are going to attack France, care to join in?". Since it was obvious that you were going to attack France, regardless of my participation, I said sure, but my war goal was going to be Lombardia. The fact that you didn't claim a province is irrelevent- your goal was to hurt France early on, and you managed to do that while deflecting French passions towards another target.
An admirable achievement, and one that I don't really have a problem with. Regardless an exception to a pattern does not mean that a general rule cannot be formed from your behavior.
You took every opportunity you could to cross me, and then you wonder why I treated you so harshly in peace.
"Venice. Don't colonize there. I repeat *do not* colonize there."
Translation: Spanish harshness towards Venice was entirely due to the "crossing" of Spain.
This is nothing more then propoganda to make your greed* seem more reasonable in hind-sight. Spain immediately siezed the Tps sent to SA (via ToT) so it had no particular reason to be vindictive about such an action; however what REALLY contradicts this statement is the fact that Spanish greed long preceeded any "crossing" that Venice did to Spain. I point out that Spain and Austria were more then willing to bisect Venice** when it was in the middle of a war with Portugal AND England, long before it even had maps of America or had even done anything to provoke Spain. Furthermore, I even thought that I had the blessings of Austria and Spain to wage the war, I did, after all, give up two provinces to Austria to wage it, if need be. (In hindsight, I really should have had the treaty worded much more preciscely when I decided on that course of action.) Regardless, the fact that you were more then willing to attack a current ally, who met your pre-war demands (make peace with Portugal immediately), and take all that you possibly could, while they were exhausted from a war that cost you
nothing speaks volumes; it certainly answers the question as to whether you took half of Venician Italy, in one war, out of greed or spite.
Anyway, the facts remain. This is but one example of your (and Wyvern's) behavior, namely that of using suprise attacks and the enforcement of harsh peaces. Now, its certainly not a "nice and friendly" way to play the game, but no one said that you had to play that way, and I certainly don't have a problem with it... assuming that you don't mind if people deal with you in the same fashion.
What I don't understand is why your going apeshit for stating that in future games (assuming we play again) I'll have, in my list of options, the option to deal with you in exactly the same fashion that you've dealt with me.
*I have no problem with greed in EU2. I do, however, have a problem with people minimizing/rationalizing their greed through propoganda. If you took something because it benefited you have the decency to be honest about it (unless your role playing).
**And they would have too, had it not been for the threatened intervention by the OE.
"What? I didn't hear you. You're unfair anyway. I'm going to put my cock in this here shiny hole and see what happens. Strange sort of blade suspended there. Nevermind. I'm just a happy-go-lucky newbie who hasn't played EU before in MP. I can't be expected to posess rudimentary skills of negotiation or common sense."
Red Herring and a gross misrepresentation- I survived quite late into the game, and I probably would have survived even longer had I not made a major diplomatic error, one that Hive, a seasoned player, repeated in the very next session.
Edit: Forgot an end quote bracket.