What is the best strategy for diplomatic expansion? Is it best to marry as many countries as you can and hope you happen to get a throne, or is it better to marry just a few at a time and claim thrones when I can (so that I don't take huge relationship/trust hits in lots of countries each time)? I've been doing the former, simply because I got sick of being constantly bombarded with marriage requests as Austria, but it doesn't seem to be working very well. And if the latter is better, is there any way to make countries stop re-sending marriage requests every time you refuse?