I have an 1.13 Aragon game going where I have been slowly eating through a fully formed France with the help of Austria (without the inheritance). The two of us were evenly matched against the BBB so we really needed to work together, and it took me a while to figure out how the AI prioritized, but now in the third war I've gotten the hang of it. When I really need them to help me win a close fight they have left sieges straight away just like they should. On the other hand when I'm handedly winning fights, they have kept sieges going and even sometimes when I've been sloppy and gotten into crushing defeats, they have ignored me like the silly noob I was playing like. I have even had GB land forces in a sort of reasonable manner and my Hispaniola helping me with French mexico!
I have noticed the AI not cancelling moves it could have, and it does siege with doomstacks occasionally and loose all their manpower, which are issues. But at least from my experience it's working really well. Ofc, I always keep my own siege stacks on all of the super important sieges, and sometimes I have to follow the AI to where they are sieging to not split our forces up, but those are simple cues that I, as an actual intelligence, can pick up on and learn to work with. And is that really too much to ask?
I have noticed the AI not cancelling moves it could have, and it does siege with doomstacks occasionally and loose all their manpower, which are issues. But at least from my experience it's working really well. Ofc, I always keep my own siege stacks on all of the super important sieges, and sometimes I have to follow the AI to where they are sieging to not split our forces up, but those are simple cues that I, as an actual intelligence, can pick up on and learn to work with. And is that really too much to ask?