I'm playing the game of thrones mod, but this is general question applicable to vanilla too.
When I start a game, depending on what person I select, a lot of the time I seem to have no options at the start of the game. I have no claims on foreign land, no de jure claims I can press or anything of that sort. The only thing I can do is send a council member out to fabricate claims on nearby weak counts, and try and marry my heir into a position where his children will inherit more. Sometimes even that fails, and I find myself marrying my heir and other children to people who are 2nd in line or more for titles, in the hope that they will get a claim and give it to my grandchildren, which I can then press. This obviously takes a long time, especially when my kids are young, so I end up fast forwarding and only having to occasionally do things like throw feasts to keep my vassal opinion up. Does this happen to you guys, or am I missing something obvious which I can be using to expand?
This game is much slower paced than games I am used to, like the total war series, and I really enjoy the thought process and planning, but I'm just curious if I'm taking long because I don't know what I'm doing or not.
Thanks.