I had to accrue some tyranny to keep my realm intact. However, while most of my subjects hit -100 immediately, my character's husband who has two counties did not. He is my character's lover and the father of her children (incl. heir). Does this prevent him from getting tyranny malus? If yes, I might as well banish the remaining counts of the realm given that the happy husband's demesne is enough to keep me on the throne.