This is way too skewed against military idea sets. The player should not be punished for picking multiple military sets. Where is the diplomatic conflict pair? Administrative? The sets already open you up to additional bad events. The player does not need further punishment beyond already suffering from BOTH sets of potential mishaps.
There is not really a cconflict in other ideagroups, except for Innovative/Religious. At the minimum qual/quant combo should be really expensive in upkeep. Current system is just... weird.
And I would agree that a couple of events really needs to be rrethinked. Some events are just pure bad in their design (though not necessarly the events themselfs)