yet you refuse to accept that i have actual reasons for wanting the system removed as opposed to it simply being me against change?
It all comes down to fun and realism. People generally want both.
For you, coalitions are not fun, and not realistic. And as of now, that's my thought as well.
If they are made fun and less ridiculous, you would then complain about realism. And how there are better ways to stop blobbing...
Realism is a funny thing in CK2. While some features are not realistic, they at least "blend in" well, and can be tolerated. As of now, the level of non-realism with coalitions is above the clouds.
My suggestion would bring them to a tolerable level. Even you suggested a great way to make the "realism level" tolerable.
Even after we make coalitions fun and somewhat realistic, you still want them removed because you think there are better ways to stop blobbing.
You want a smart AI? Well, I want world peace....
First of all, devs won't remove coalitions just yet.
Why?
Would you simply delete something that you worked hard to make?
They will try to fix it. No matter how broken a feature is, Paradox will try hard to provide patches until it is tolerable.
Whether you like it or not, we are stuck with the system for the foreseeable future.
Second of all, it is not so easy to make an anti-blob mechanic.
People will always complain. And the way I see it, many people who dislike coalitions, do it because they are unable to conquer vast territories.
Do you actually believe that we can have a good anti-blob mechanic, without people complaining how they can no longer expand their territory? Should we have more exciting things to do inside our realm, without focusing on war and expansion? Yes, yes and YES!
I want to have more things to do, while in peace. (but then again, when I mention economy and trade, for some reason people yell at me how this is not EU4 or Victoria 2.....When I ask for better religion, pagans, republics...people yell at me, saying how we already have dedicated expansions for that.)
Still, we need to look at here and now. More things to do, while in peace, could come in the next expansion. We need to deal with current problems.
What ideas do you have? I bet Paradox had many ideas, but proved to be either impossible to implement, or would potentially anger the player base.
Vassal Limit was poorly implemented, same with Decadence. At least that is how some people would say.
Do you really think that Paradox deliberately makes poor features? Do you really believe that this game could be infinitely better, only if devs weren't so lazy?
Yes, I believe that you have actual reasons for disliking this feature.
But once (or if) we get coalitions to a fun and somewhat realistic level, your reasons will become void.
And they will simply only stand as your personal opinion.
For now, we wait for this patch.
Until then, we can either give suggestions to how to make coalitions better (because, like I said, we won't see them removed just yet) or to simply ignore the problem and play the game.